From the Young Adult Ministry: Diaper Drive for Mercy House

The Young Adult Ministry is running a diaper drive to benefit Mercy House in Newark. The mission of the Mercy House is to offer a welcoming space for individuals and families in need– and to provide emotional support and healing in a comfortable, faith-filled environment.

Diapers will be collected the weekends of September 10th, 17th, and 24th.

The Mercy House has expressed a need for diapers in the larger sizes, and so we humbly ask for donations sizes 3 and larger.

A collection bin will be located near the Infant of Prague Statue in the church during those weekends. If you have any questions please reach out to youngadults@stachurchbloomfield.org.

Thank you for your generosity, and God Bless.

Holy Name Society at St. Alfonso Redemptorist Retreat House 2023

In July, a group of men from the STA Holy Name Society attended the Redemptorist San Alfonso Retreat House in West Long Branch, N.J. This year’s theme was "Seeing our Story in God's Story: Formed by Word and Sacrament."

We heard about the importance of the stories of our lives - our families, our faith, our churches. We learned about seeing ourselves in the Bible's stories and using Lectio Divina to internalize and reflect on scripture: a method of prayer that will be helpful in our Parish Council’s high priority for the foundation of additional STA prayer groups and Bible study. We shared stories of past Holy Name Society Members, celebrating their lives, and various ministries and events at Saint Thomas over the years.

It is important to share stories - we find a connection in stories. We find that we are not all that different from each other, and we find friendship, support, and valuable lessons when we share stories about ourselves and our loved ones. There were over 50 men from other dioceses in N.J. who traded creative practical ways (“stories”) to envision enriching parish life back home.

St. Alfonso’s is an “oasis” for charging a person’s spiritual “batteries” for the challenging work in the parish ministries in the months ahead. That’s why many attendees come back yearly. Charles Collins received an award for participating in 35 retreats at San Alfonso.

The STA Holy Name Society has been in existence since the founding of the parish. The Society promotes prayer, Eucharistic Adoration and collaboration with other parish ministries in performing the Corporal and the Spiritual Works of Mercy, to include practical programming on vulnerable persons and their needs. Click here to visit our ministry page and learn more.

For decades, the HNS has been sponsoring the annual weekend retreat at San Alfonso Retreat House, situated on eight beautiful acres overlooking the ocean. Its outdoor shrines, prayer garden, beautiful chapels, and comfortable accommodations have been “Holy Ground” for laity, religious, and clergy for 98 years.

We know from scripture that Jesus frequently withdrew in prayer for periods of time to remain centered in His public ministry. We need to follow His example. You are called to find a regular special place for that near you: a room, a park, a pew in Eucharistic Adoration. We recommend trying to attend a retreat house if you can, even if it’s only once in a lifetime.

To learn more about the Holy Name Society or inquire about membership, click here to visit their ministry page.

Deacon Tom's Homily for the 20th Sunday in Ordinary Time

IN TODAY’S GOSPEL, WE SEE THE power of love!

AS OUR GOSPEL BEGINS, WE SEE A tired Jesus, worn out from all His journeys. He needs some time to rest, to prepare Himself and His disciples for the upcoming ordeal of His Passion and Death. To get a break from the crowds of people that are after Him day in and day out, Jesus leaves Jewish territory, for the only time we know of, and crosses into the pagan territory of Tyre and Sidon in the Canaanite region.

JESUS IS CONFIDENT THAT THE crowds of Jews seeking miracles and healings will never follow Him into Canaanite territory. The Canaanites were an abomination to the Jews because of their fertility-based pagan religion. The Jews called all Canaanites “filthy wild dogs.”

JUST AS JESUS BEGINS TO BREATHE a sigh of relief, here comes this woman running after him, calling out. And, of course, she is a Canaanite!

THIS CANAANITE WOMAN IS prepared for derision and contempt as she approaches this band of Jewish men. But, her love for her ailing daughter is so strong, the woman is ready to endure anything for a chance to just speak to this famous Jewish Healer. She cries out, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.” He is her last hope!

WHEN JESUS DOES FINALLY answer her, she is encouraged because He uses a much softer word for dog. Jesus says, “It’s not right to take the food of the children and throw it to the pet dogs.” Her heart leaps up – maybe there is a chance after all!

THE DEPTH OF HER LOVE AND HER belief in Him makes Jesus change His Mind – God’s love knows no bounds. Jesus heals her daughter!

TODAY, THIS CANAANITE WOMAN teaches us to persevere in prayer, despite all the obstacles. She teaches us one of the most powerful prayers in all scripture. When we, or a loved one, are seriously ill, may we pray from the depths of our heart, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.” Whenever we, or a loved one, have a habit of sin that seems unbreakable, may we pray from our heart, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.”

NONE OF US WOULD BE SURPRISED to see, a little while later, this same Canaanite woman standing among that group of women weeping as Jesus approaches them carrying His Cross on His way to Calvary. Knowing this Canaanite woman, she would be standing right up front with her arm around the daughter that Jesus healed!

Fraud Alert: Parishioners, be advised of potential scams

St. Thomas the Apostle Parish is warning all parishioners to be wary of online scammers.

The clergy and staff of the parish will NEVER send you an email or text asking you to send money or your personal information to them.

If you receive such a request purporting to be from one of our clergy or staff members, please alert us and DO NOT SEND MONEY OR GIFT CARDS. Do not respond to the online or texted request.

Thank you!

Beyond Cornerstone: Summer Day Camp with the St. Augustine Soup Kitchen

Our day helping at the summer camp in July was so much fun thanks to Tiffany and her team. They supplied games, crafts, pizza and take-home goodie bags. The highlight of the day was the arrival of the ice cream truck. The Religious Education Ministry donated 23 bags of children’s clothing.

Marianne, Pricilla, and their team are planning a picnic style meal of chicken and summer salads for our August visit. We supply cases of water to the kitchen during the summer months.

Joanne continues to collect clean take-out containers. Please contact Alicia at aliciavons@gmail.com for drop-off information.

Our individual parishioners’ consistent and prayerful donations of time and money are the foundation of our ministry and allow us to continue our mission. Please consider placing a donation in an envelope marked SOUP KITCHEN in the collection basket or drop it off at the Parish Center.

If you are interested in volunteering with Beyond Cornerstone, please visit their page.

Deacon Tom's Homily for the 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time

AS TODAY’S GOSPEL BEGINS, WE see Jesus getting into a boat about to address His followers who are lined-up along the shore. Up on the hillside to His right, Jesus notices a farmer scattering seeds all over his field. Jesus turns to the crowd and begins: “The Kingdom of God is like that sower over there [pointing to His right] who went out to sow seeds in his field.”

JESUS HIMSELF SOWED THE SEEDS of the Kingdom, especially during the three years of His public ministry. He told us that the Kingdom of God is like a treasure buried in the field; and like a pearl of great price. He taught us to love our enemies, to pray for those who persecute us. The blind received their sight. The deaf heard again; lepers were cleansed, and the dead were raised to life.

JESUS IS STILL SOWING THE SEEDS of the Kingdom right here for us at this Mass today. Each one of us has the responsibility to make sure that the soil of our own heart is rich and ready to receive the seeds of the Kingdom as Jesus proclaims the Sacred Scriptures to us. Is our heart open to receive the Word of God today? Have we really been listening?

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE SEEDS that have touched our heart in particular in the past and are growing within us right now? Perhaps, that moment when the father of the prodigal son hugs his son tightly against his heart? And maybe one or more of the Psalms: for example, “The Lord’s voice flashes flames of fire; the Lord’s voice shaking the wilderness. And in His temple, they all cry ‘Glory.’”

LET’S TAKE A CLOSER LOOK AT ONE of the seeds that Jesus has planted in each of our hearts. The seed of His own Resurrection from the dead. In Jesus’ Resurrection, we get a glimpse of our own future destiny. We can picture our own face shining brighter than the sun, our garment whiter than snow. We know why we were born; we know what our goal in life is: union with Jesus and the Father and the Holy Spirit in an ecstasy of joy that will never diminish, that will never end.

MAY WE NOURISH THIS SEED OF the Resurrection within us always. May we allow it to ever grow and flourish in our soul. Jesus has already won the victory for us. The abundant harvest is assured. In Jesus’ day, the average harvest yielded seven times more than the amount of seed sown. Today, our Gospel assures us that our harvest will yield thirty times or sixty times or even one hundred times the seed sown. So, take the seeds of God’s love and make them grow!

TODAY, WE ARE FILLED WITH hope. We are filled with joy. And today, in this temple we all cry, “Glory.”

From the Pastoral Council: 2023 Listening Sessions Report

Dear Parishioners,

The 2023 Listening Session was the first initiative undertaken by our Pastoral Council. First and foremost, it was conducted in response to the invitation of Pope Francis to dioceses throughout the world to engage in a synodal process of listening to the Word of God and one another, encountering the person of Jesus Christ, and discerning God’s will for the Church. Simultaneously, it was a wonderful opportunity for us as Pastoral Council members to have the time and space to hear about the needs and concerns of STA parishioners directly.

As we were all new to our posts, the intention was to take stock of the current spiritual, social and organizational state of our parish. It was important to us that our way forward as a parish, our investment of our time, talent and treasure, the vision we have been tasked with executing be rooted in the guidance provided by the people of God that we have been called to serve.

Over the course of two days, we met with about 60 participants and pooled feedback by offering virtual and in-person opportunities. Parishioners were invited to attend the Listening Sessions on the evening of October 20th, 2022, as well as on Sunday October 23rd, after the 10 am Mass. A google form was made available through the church website with the same set of questions. The questions were 1. What do you like about our Parish? 2. How can our Parish improve? and 3. What do you want to see happen at STA in the future? Parishioners were able to submit their responses digitally throughout the month of November. We must express our gratitude to those who shared their thoughts with us in such an honest, thoughtful and caring manner. It was very encouraging to see all those who took part in prayer, listening and efforts to discern what the Holy Spirit is calling us to in the twenty-first century.

The Pastoral Council coordinated with our youth group leader, Francesca Leite, to hold a STAYG Listening Session. On the evening of December 4th, the members of our youth group relayed their faith formation experiences with openness, maturity and frankness, giving us a much-appreciated insight into what our high schoolers need from our church. We cannot thank all of the participants enough for your feedback. Your feedback was honest, heartfelt and thoughtful; the process of digesting the feedback was also thoughtful, methodical and took time throughout the Winter and Spring. Our members held five meetings throughout the Winter and Spring devoted to organizing and prioritizing the feedback. We used an application called Jamboard to create dozens of virtual color coded post-it notes and a priority matrix to evaluate the viability of the ideas in the coming year.

Four areas emerged that we will be attending to in the coming year. Your Listening Session input made it clear that people in our Parish want to connect with one another and each priority honors that fundamental desire.

  • First, we will renew our efforts to create and support prayer groups and bible study groups at St. Thomas. These are wonderful opportunities to connect with fellow Parishioners around the word of God.

  • Our second priority is to follow up with families and Parishioners after they have completed Sacraments to further connect with and welcome members of the Parish.

  • Our third priority will be to bring back regular socials and dances. After the great success of our Parish Picnic last September it is clear that we are calling for more opportunities to gather together socially.

  • Our last priority is to give ministry members the opportunity to promote and advertise their ministries from the pulpit. It is so powerful to hear from a member that you can connect a face and name to when their ministry is promoted and we will provide those opportunities.

Father Larry stands by our priorities, the Pastoral Council stands by our priorities, and we invite you to take part in carrying our priorities out.

The Pandemic made us aware of how valuable our time is, and the Listening Sessions were a tool to clarify how we can focus our time and efforts as a community. The feedback you provided has made it clear that STA is to be a place of encounter and connection. How blessed are we that, in a time when the perceived trend may be rancor, incivility and apathy, we are given people – in the pews and up on the altar – who are keenly aware that faith formation, development and maintenance is served best by an environment of warm welcome and earnest appreciation for the talents each of us brings as we continue to build the Kingdom of God in the here and now.

The Pastoral Council plans to meet with heads of our various ministries to discuss the realities of bringing this vision to life in each of their respective areas. We will also want to assess what kind of help they need to be able to successfully serve our parishioners. In the meantime, we ask for your continued participation in our parish life. You have shown us that you care deeply about STA, its present and its future. Please keep sharing your thoughts, your talents, and your time with us.

Thank you and God Bless!

Yours in service,

Saint Thomas the Apostle Pastoral Council

pastoralcouncil@stachurchbloomfield.org

Veterans' Benefit Concert: Highlights

The Music Ministry’s Benefit Event God, Country and the American Spirit: A ‘Thank You’ Concert for Veterans succeeded in raising $7,000 for Project K9 Beethoven, a nonprofit organization that provides rescued trained psychiatric service dogs for Veterans and others in need at no cost.

Special Thanks Include:

Kim Mesiti, Artistic Director

Patricio Molina, Music Director

Paul Alongi, Producer

Project K9 Beethoven

The Mayor’s Office and Councilpersons of the Town of Bloomfield

The Adult and Children’s Choirs